I've been thinking lately about love. It is very hard to define this word. For one thing I see it as action, always a challenge and even quite elusive at times.
The unconditional love (like what God has) is really unbelievable. The closest we come to this is our kids. We look into the crib and we dream, but we know we could some day have to visit a prison, or the north pole, or an African Village for this person, depending on whether they become a missionery, or explorer or even a criminal. But we love them, and that's about as close as we ever get to unconditional. I don't think we really get any closer with friends, parents, or even spouses. We think we can get closer, but in reality I don't think we do. Maybe I'm a negative person, who's not trying hard enough. Perhaps I'm a bit jaded, because I've not felt loved unconditionally.
Actually at this point in my life, my husband has shown me the most love. Kids don't (yet) friends do at times but yeh, the best friend I have is the person I married.
I'm glad I'm the other half. Even though I know it's really two whole people who make a great marriage. It's fun to think that someone completes me. They have some things I admire and they compliment me. That's very rewarding. That's love to me.
It's not at all complicated then. So if you've looked everywhere and looked for a long time, either on E-harmony or next to you in your house. Don't even look at all, just take it in. God is wispering in your ear. "I have given you everything"
"I will never stop giving you what you need" "Surely I would not hold love back from you" "Do not listen to the evil one" "He is the Father of lies"
"I am the Father of Man - I am Love and I cannot be anything else..."
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Love is a real mystery
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Tuesday, April 13, 2010
"And the word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld his glory...full of grace and truth" John 1:14 NKJV
It's spring again and wow, what a lovely aray of colors, sights, sounds and smells. God is so good and his message is over and over - how we are reborn...I have a heart for those who can touch him at last. I was one of the lost and now am found. I am a sinner and yet Jesus still loves me.
To say that we were once blind and now can see, is just a way of trying to express the wonderful life Jesus has given us. We do not need chemicals to party, we fellowship honestly. We do not need to compete, we are forever complete in our Father.
And most importantly - we belong - We finally belong. Thank God that my eyes were opened - thank God for REBIRTH
Happy
Spring
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Saturday, February 13, 2010
Snow Snow Everywhere
I've always loved the white stuff, but wow. 2 blizards in 1 week. Where to put all the white stuff. That's the question. I dug my car out (finally) and that put even more snow on the driveway. As I walked each shovel full over to a mound that was taller than myself, I realized this is way to much of a good thing.
Don't we do that- in life. We wish we had something and when it's finally dumped on us, full force we are overwhelmed. Man is not like any other creature, in fact the only things we can't ever have too much of - is love.
See -we are created in the image of God and he actually wants love. He certainly doesn't need us, or our complaints, or our lack of faith. He can make the stars and oceans, these people are just another creation.
Not so, we are the children, So the next time you feel like you would give your child everything (even your life) remember the really big father (GOD) He wants your love and then like the snow we have right now -the blessings drown you, because you can actually see them.
You'll see what I mean, think really big and look at your creator, he's got a ton of great things for you. Even more than you can handle...
Amen
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Friday, January 1, 2010
Happy New Year
Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing,
some people have entertained angels without knowing it.
Hebrews 13:2
I saw this in a message from Sandy Cove (the retreat place) and it really made my heart soar. I'm a big angel person. Even though I've looked for them throughout the bible and they are usually men. I say that because we depict them as girls with long flowing gowns and that's funny to me. I don't care what they are. I just feel that they are messengers from God and I know that they have been around longer than us. They are bright and seem to bring hope to man.
On the dark side - God's enemy is an angel (Lucifer) which was the bearer of light. He turned and thus started the actual fued that man is now involved in. God wins though- because he made everything. He made us - he made the stars, earth and sun, and he even made Lucifer. That wasn't even a mistake. He just gives free will and with that - we make the errors...
Just wanted to say Happy New Year! - and entertain some angels this year. They bring allot of hope...We need hope...and they know that!
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Saturday, November 28, 2009
Be One !
I have seen this trivet on my stove a hundred times, but I never really SAW it till today. It tells us "to be a friend", and when I look again - it actually has holly and holly berries. This never meant much to me. But I pray allot and I ask God to tell me things I need to know. I think he showed me this afternoon that this trivet has something to do with Christmas.
My best friend seems to have trials that reveal themselves around the holidays and I fancy myself as the person who can cheer her up. But as my friend shared today and I added words to (hopefully) make her feel better, I realized that she just needs a listener. A friend. To have a friend - I need to be one, especially when my friend is tired. I need to carry her, I need say - "You have a right to those feelings". I need to remember that she is the one who says "Who is the Master"? In an effort to cheer her - I see that she is the one who reminds me of the love Jesus has for us.
It's such a priviledge to have her as a part of my life, because she is the culmination of experiences - high and low- that have made her a true follower of Christ. I admire this quality. It is very priceless.
We are who we are because of times of sadness, of difficulty and just complete adversity. No one would ask for this. It is the exact opposite of what we would want for ourselves or our friends. It's a new thing to seek God in hardship. It's not new to those who have God. They already realized who carries us.
They already know the True friend, that's why they can be one.
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